Thank you, Roger. I’ve been thinking about your amazing comment all day and trying to think of way to express my gratitude. I am absolutely intrigued by the idea you expressed — the confusion that comes with grief. It is absolutely spot on and not something I even realized I was expressing in my essays and yet that’s exactly it, isn’t it? “What, by god, is love now?” This is the crux of what we’re trying to understand. I would love to write an essay exploring the idea of grief as confusion (or causing confusion?) about what love — and life — means now. Can I quote some of what you wrote here? Thank you for taking the time to write this and also please accept my sincere condolences for the loss of your wife.